Its not that my life is absolute, unrestrained chaos anymore … it is just that I have gotten quite busy in the last few years (especially in the last six months.)
Using the tickler file concept from Getting Things Done has been massively helpful. I forget fewer tasks and procrastinate less. Additionally, the general level of chaos in my life has reduced – it is rare that bills are overdue or that I complete lose important bits of paper or email. (I even wrote a some AppleScript to automate the process for Mail.app on the Mac – get a copy here. Be warned: right now the software is for power users only.)
The planning process from the book is also very helpful – I find that I do much less “brute force” planning and think much more clearly about my projects in general.
Other ideas from GTD are also helpful, I just need to develop the the habit of applying them consistently.